Episode 18 - James Docherty

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"I Was Tortured With Loneliness..."  | Listen UP Episode 18 - James Docherty

In Listen UP Episode 18, 20-year recovery advocate and prevention worker James Docherty shares the biological reality behind every failed attempt to cut down or stop, highlighting why detox must come before any psychological work can land, and how the 12-step programme removes the obsession — so you stop thinking about drinking, not just resist it.

James Docherty reveals the single biological fact that explains every failed attempt at control, transforming the shame of "why can't I just stop?" into a clear, actionable picture of what recovery actually requires:

  • Why switching from spirits to beer, quitting briefly, or white-knuckling it is wired to fail — and it has nothing to do with willpower
  • The petrol tank explanation that made 20 years of confusion click in one sentence
  • Feel the difference between being stopped and being free, and why only one of them keeps you safe long-term
  • The real reason most relapses happen (and what ACTUALLY helps to prevent relapse...)

...and reveals what a man who went through every system imaginable discovered that no professional had ever put into words for him.

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Eddie Clarke

In recovery personally, Eddie is the Outreach and Aftercare Manager for Abbeycare Group. Eddie also hosts our podcast, Listen UP.

Day to day, Eddie oversees our aftercare programme, and the assertive outreach and family teams in Abbeycare.

Each year, Eddie spearheads our annual Recovery Gathering, celebrating the achievements of Abbeycare graduates in person.

Last Updated: August 27, 2026